Well, here we are, in 2017, beginning this second week of the new year with a kindergarten re-do!
Last August we had planned to start K.K. in kindergarten, but I went in unprepared in every way. To make a very long story short, we quit after two weeks and I was low-key depressed about it for a month or so.
What I didn’t realize at the time was that my definition of school was too narrow. I was thinking that we were supposed to mimic public school at home (which is not only depressing, but enough to make most of us want to jump out of a third story window within seventeen minutes). I was terrified that if we weren’t doing what the public elementary school children were doing (AND MORE, BECAUSE HOME SCHOOL), my child would not actually be learning anything. I can’t blame myself, because I just didn’t know that there were any other legitimate ways of doing it.
As these things go, this break-down was the best thing that has happened to me in years. Not the mild depression part, but the part where I hit my knees and asked God for wisdom. I also asked for help from every homeschooling mom I met (and I seem to meet them everywhere).
I had a turning point a few months ago. In the midst of my dejection, my good friend Katie told me about the Wild and Free resource bundles. I went straight home and downloaded September’s bundle of articles and podcasts about Mornings. The first podcast I listened to was homeschool blogger Pam Barnhill talking about her morning basket. I was fascinated! This was the first real alternative to worksheets and textbooks I had ever heard of.
Around this time, my mother-in-law (an early-movement homeschooler) also sent me a link for an interview with Dr. Raymond Moore called “school can wait,” on the subject of homeschool and academic readiness.
Almost immediately after getting ahold of this material, burdens were lifted from my shoulders, the lights were turned on, and joy and hope began to set in. Over these past months I’ve had a true paradigm shift and a new vision for my role as a mother and homeschooler. The things I was stressing so hard about were mostly just social norms that I had accepted without realizing it. And the things that I thought were trivial or secondary I began to recognize as the things that would be the most essential to my children’s success.
I’ve been able to deconstruct a lot of my old perceptions about academic success. I’m currently in re-construction mode, learning about all the ways besides a traditional classroom that I can give my children an abundant and beautiful preparation for life. (Including university, if they choose to go!)
So here is what we did:
At this early stage, we decided to put skill-building and formal education on the back burner. The focus is on habits, character, and having fun together. So no reading, math or handwriting yet. Although most kids K.K.’s age are in kindergarten right now doing these things, she does not really need formal academics yet, and I honestly do not feel she is ready. I do feel that I need to devote more undivided attention to my girls and that they are ready for a more structured routine. I also have some specific habits I want to establish this year.
We did implement a morning basket. This sort of like “circle time.” In our basket right now is Mother Goose, A Child’s Garden of Verses, the Jesus Storybook Bible and some seasonal picture books. We also have a weekly memory verse and a song. This is something that can grow to become the nucleus of our home school later on. (We can add academic subjects that span multiple ages, like history and science, in the form of living books.)
A few days a week we incorporated some activities from the Peaceful Preschool curriculum, a 26-week Montessori and Charlotte Mason-inspired program based on the letters of the alphabet. The book list works perfectly with the morning basket concept.
Peaceful Preschool is a way for me to give them some nature-based crafts and “school work” (wink, wink.) I love the simplicity of the format and activities she suggests. I’m hoping that this will help transition me into home school mode for next year. (When I say I’m using the curriculum, I mean using it loosely as a guide!)
We are also going to hone in on outdoor time for an hour every day because the scene around here is a little less like “wild and free” and a little more like “tame and confined,” alternatively, “crying about worms and refusing to leave the patio.” So we are working on that!
To help me make the transition, on Fridays we had a wonderful baby-sitter come all day so that I could do work, errands, planning/paperwork, make phone calls, meet friends, date my husband, go for a run, and clean bathrooms. Basically, anything else that I would do during the week, I stuff in a closet and save for this day. Not having my time chopped up between multiple tasks is life-changing and I feel more emotionally plugged in during the week knowing that I have Fridays to do all the things.
Notes
Unschooling is our main philosophy (more about that here), but we utilize some Charlotte Mason principles to enrich our home and equip our kids to self-educate.
Each year I choose a literature-based curriculum or book list along with one math and one language arts program. From about September to about March, we do short lessons, projects and read alouds with these curriculums. The remainder of our time is spent on interest-led learning. I plan our year without a calendar or planner using a simple homeschool planning schema.
- Here’s how we structure our day, and here’s how we approach learning to read.
- If you liked this post you can find all seven of our homeschool year recaps chronicled here.
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Rachael Faye!!! I have just started listening to Your Morning Basket podcasts and have Mere Motherhood and the Handbook on the way. There is a group of us from CC that are reading through the book together and chatting about our thoughts (over coffee and sweets, of course). I keep thinking of you as I’m listening! Please update on how Morning Time is working! I just started it again after taking about a 6 month break. :O)
Ha ha! I JUST discovered the Your Morning Basket podcasts last week! I listened to Cindy Rollins talk about her sons in the special forces telling her how the poetry and scripture from their morning time got them through their worst days, and I cried and then immediately ordered her book! I think Your Morning Basket is one of my favorite podcasts yet. And thank you for the Teaching from Rest recommendation!
Hi. You don’t know me, but I got to TFH (and frequent Eco Chic) so at some point stumbled on your blog and occasionally check in because I love your photos. I’m a homeschooling mom with kids age 10, 9, 6 and now a foster to adopt baby of 8 months old. As your kids get older and you are looking for more structure/curriculum/support I highly recommend My Father’s World Curriculum and Math U See. Also, my kids started About FACE charter this year (previous years we schooled privately) and I LOVE it. So many moms to bounce ideas on, so many great field trips and social events for kids, and so much freedom to tailor school into what my kids need. Plus, the budget covers all our non-Christian books and activities. (Free ballet classes and ice skating, thank you!). … I love your approach to school with the littles and it’s so nice to see that homeschooling is catching on around here. 🙂 Leslie
Thank you for this Leslie! I will check out all of those things! My friend Katie Heinemeyer has been homeschooling through Visions and has a budget which I have to admit I’m a little jealous of! I have heard about Math U See from a few people, so I will definitely check it out!
I am just about to begin homeschooling my 13 yo. Best choice we ever made.
Hey Kate! Yay! My girls are 5, 3 and 1. I definitely wish that I had done a more intentional routine like this when mine were younger! I just didn’t have much of a grid for it. And I wish I had read up on home school earlier than I did. I just had a bunch of terrible misconceptions about it, so I wasn’t at all interested, ha ha!
What I would do with Adelina is start a book list of good picture books and begin reading aloud at night and naps, including some fun children’s poetry! There are lots of treasuries out there. Then I would add a little “chore time,” like brushing teeth and anything else simple she can do, like dressing or “making” her bed, wink, wink. Also, about an hour a day of outdoor time, when you can. And yes, I would wait on the Wild and Free subscription only because it costs $20 a month. It will definitely prepare you, but you won’t need it until she is more like 5; I would say start it a little before she is ready for kindergarten. I would read these three books now: Honey for A Child’s Heart by Gladys Hunt, The Read Aloud Handbook by Jim Trelease, and Better Late than Early by Dr. Raymond Moore. The Read Aloud Handbook you can get at the library, and the other two you can borrow from me! These are the books I wish I had read when K.K. was turning three! They will start you with some solid children’s literature and get your inspiration flowing. Read Aloud Revival also has wonderful picture book recommendations. I have other book recs if you like those!
Wow – so much to take in! We are just starting to explore the possibility of homeschooling. My oldest isn’t scheduled to begin kindergarten until the fall of 2018, and he attends a Christian preschool a few days a week now. I was always someone who thought I would NEVER homeschool (even though I was a school teacher before becoming a SAHM), but after talking with friends who have kids in the local public school system (which as public schools go, are “great”), I am struggling with the idea of sending my 5-y/o away for an entire day where they are mostly confined to a desk (but for the 15 mins of recess they get) and only having three hours each evening to help with homework, play, have dinner, and impart our faith and values. So I’m in that stage you mentioned – asking lots of questions and reading everything I can get my hands on. It’s overwhelming and there’s so much to take in! So many opinions and so many different programs. I’m very interested to follow along on your journey and learn as you learn. Thanks for sharing!
Love hearing your journey!! I too had big aspirations for the “school year” last August and ended up making us all miserable in the process. Haha! Sooo, I went back to what had worked for us before! Right now we are simply doing my own version of “Five in a Row”. I find wonderful books. I pin several activities I think we could do throughout the week with that book. And then we do it. Sometimes. And sometimes we don’t. They are 2 1/2 and 4 1/2 so it doesn’t really matter! And they soak up life and learning like sponges! So I just keep reading with them, doing fun things with them, and pointing them to Jesus throughout their days. Praying I have peace as they get older and I feel the pressures of “for real school” caving in on me. Will be praying for you and your journey with the girls too!!! xoxo